I Want To Be Like Superwoman

Today, I failed miserably at meeting the standards of the "Proverbs 31 woman" (my version of Superwoman). I hope that one day, my children would still "arise up and call [me] blessed", and so would my husband (v. 28).

Being a mother is tough--it doesn't matter if you're a working mom, a stay-at-home mom, or even a single mom. I've been all three. It is a very special title to hold, and with such a title comes great responsibility.

And then...there are just some days that you lose your cool.

Thankfully, I have a wonderful husband who helped me get my cool back. He surprised me with an ice cream sundae upon arriving home from a long day at work--you know, one of those Mondays.

In contrast, I also have an ex-husband who has consistently been behind on his child support this year. Perhaps, it is time to call the Child Support Enforcement Agency (CSEA).

Here, I have one man who brings out the best in me, and there's another, who brings out the worst. The latter takes advantage of my kindness and does not take action until I am burning angry.

10 Qualities to Develop in Our Children

Sunset at Clearwater Beach, Florida

As parents and/or teachers, we sometimes focus way too much on our children's academics and performance that it's easy to lose sight of the fundamentals. It never hurts to take a break, regain our composure, and go according to our children's pace (as well as ours); because quite frankly, things can get quite overwhelming and/or discouraging--on both sides.

Tough teaching days like today enable me to reflect and refocus--and if need be, reset. 

It would be nice if I could recharge, too, but in a household with children, that's considered a luxury.

The day may not always turn out to be the way we had expected; thankfully, we can always try another way, if God so chooses to bless us with another new day.

How to Create Your Very Own "Pa Kamali'i" or Children's Courtyard

We live in a simple house. We do not have any fancy artwork or decorations. Aside from practical purposes (our children are very active boys who can turn any place into a football field), we decided to turn our home into a children's courtyard--a safe place where their energy and creativity can shine through. It's our mini-version of the Hawaii Convention Center's Pa Kamali'i, or Children's Courtyard.

At the entrance of the courtyard was a sign that read,

Pa Kamali'i: Children's Couryard

A Hawaiian proverb states, "He lei poina 'ole ke kamali'i," [which means] "A lei never forgotten is the beloved child." Though few children may be heard or seen here, they are not forgotten. This courtyard with its art work is dedicated not only to the children of Hawai'i but to the child within each of us--that part of us which is ultimately alive, energetic, creative and fulfilled--who we truly are.

How to Stop Raising a Generation of Consumers

Epcot - Walt Disney World, Florida

It appears that we have been creating a society that has become dependent on others to teach them how to do something (old or new). This tends to hamper innovation and continuous process improvement. Sometimes, this can even promote laziness and/or complacency.

Hence, I don't completely agree with the quote,

"Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime." 

Contingency Planning: What happens if they run out of fish?

Learning How to Read and Spell with Shaka

Aloha! We spent some quality time with Shaka the Tutor, again, yesterday. I thought of creating yet another PowerPoint presentation (where our virtual pet, Shaka, "lives") to check if my older son really is learning how to spell words correctly and construct sentences properly. I wanted it to be a family activity, so I took his list of spelling words and made one slide per word, along with an example of how to use the word in a sentence.

The big letters allowed me to follow along by looking at the computer screen from a distance (while tending to a newborn baby) and nodding in approval as each child did their part correctly.

Learning About Popular Fighter Jets and Bombers in the Pacific

Photo Courtesy of U.S. Pacific Command

As old-fashioned as it may sound, our children recently rediscovered their passion for making paper airplanes. They have been using the construction paper that I had purchased for other crafting purposes.

Today, my older son made a black jet that flew really well and asked if there were any black jets or aircraft in real life. The first one that came to mind was the B-2 Spirit.

I suggested that he Google it.